drelllassassinn:

electricalice:

drelllassassinn:

I still cannot believe some of y'all think a man verbally calling out the fact that he was hurt to the person who actually hurt him is abuse like I still cannot believe y'all hate men so much that y'all will literally list out Bellamy telling his sister–excuse me–his abuser that he didn’t actually kill Lincoln was somehow him twisting his word into blaming Oc.tavia for his death, and that Bellamy telling Clarke that she left him and their people and therefore has no right to make their decisions for them is somehow also abusive ???? I don’t– ??? It doesn’t equate????

Like y'all hate men so much there is actually no emotion they could express on this tv show that y'all would find acceptable unless it’s pain because then y'all get to cheer and clap and praise whoever’s dishing out the pain because the men “deserved it” and they need to suck it up because it’s “man pain.” I really cannot believe how transparent some of y'all are, like it’s crystal clear. I could see it if my eyes were blindfolded and there were ten rooms between me and the nearest electronic device. I’d still be able to see the misandry and my head would whip around so f*cking fast it’d probably snap from it’s socket and roll onto the ground straight down the hallway into the nearest room with a computer so I can laugh my ass off at your transparency with the words right in front of me because y'all are !! so!!! obvious!!! and it’s wild!!!! I cannot believe!

Frankly this fandom is one of the most toxic environment I’ve ever seen. How the fuck can you look at a victim saying he didn’t deserve to have the shit beaten out of him and say that he’s abusing his abuser like what the fuck are they teaching their fellow fans. 

And to think this is a fandom full of teenagers, I’m old and I got the experience to call bullshit when I see it but it’s full of people actually believing this shit because big blogs say it. I live in fear my young cousin who is just starting to enter fandoms might stumble across this clusterfuck. I’m terrified what it can do to her. 

Abuse is abuse no matter the gender of the abuser and the gender of the victim FFS

Why are people who profess themselves feminists keep fueling toxic masculinity, why. 

I will literally!! never!!! understand! how some people can look at Bellamy being beat by his own sister and think, “Yeah but it’s not abuse because he deserved it,” like what??!! I will literally never understand how people can look at the same character who’s been canonically punished and tortured and held accountable for his actions more than any other character on this entire show (arguably tied with Murphy) and think, “Lmao the narrative never punishes him,” even as the narrative is actually “punishing him” by making his sister abuse him, I’m so !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! 

“How the fuck can you look at a victim saying he didn’t deserve to have the shit beaten out of him and say that he’s abusing his abuser..[?]”

You’re right and that’s honestly what they do and it drives,, me,,. up!! the wall!!! he’s deadass been beaten to the point where he’s going to have scars by a sister he’s given up his entire life protecting and cherishing and loving and then when he finally musters the courage and strength to speak out about the fact that he didn’t kill Lincoln and therefore she had no right to beat him,., he’s!! the villain!!! how does that make any sense!!!!? not to mention he was watching her hands throughout the conversation because he’s actively and instinctively scared of what she’d do to him at this point and that’s a primal impulsive reaction to someone who’s been beaten by someone they love!!! I cannot believe her actions are being praised and defended for no reason other than that they don’t like Bellamy. Stop!!! victim-blaming!! and praising abusers!!!! Females are not excluded from being abusers–females are human beings, not mystically creatures capable of doing no wrong. Stop calling yourself a feminist!!! while simultaneously promoting toxic masculinity! because it’s wrong!!! I cannot believe–!!